

Me? Marry my step-grandbaby? Why not?
There are reports, of questionable veracity, that 72 year old Morgan Freeman is set to marry his 27 year old step-granddaughter E'Dena Hines after a 10 year relationship. Hines is the granddaughter of Freeman's first wife. I'm not going to say whether this is true or not but, rather, I want to deal with the larger topic. Is it socially acceptable for members of a blended family that are not blood-related to have a romantic relationship?
Socially acceptable? No, unless you live in the back, back, back country. Banjo country.
Morally acceptable? No (see above).
Legally acceptable? Yes, apparently. But just because something is legal, doesn't mean it should be done.
Just another actor whom I'll stop paying to watch now that I've become aware of what sort of a person he is. I don't want to support this guy nor his life choices, and I think I'll be taking my entertainment dollars elsewhere.
alkimija, you should not insult banjos that way.
Ewwwww....Scott, are you saying he was 62 and she was 17???!! How "questionable" is this report? Be specific. Should we even be discussing this? I'm totally giving up on Hollywood if this is true. If Morgan Freeman did this, then what is Denzel capable of? No!! I don't really want to know. All my favorite actors. Ugh. So sad if there is any truth to this. Now you must get to the bottom of it.
Not just a non-blood relative, but one separated by about 5 decades.
ElliePhat
Wanna bet that this Freeman story is unadulterated BS?
What stakes did you have in mind? ;)
Name your price, toots.
alkimija-
Banjo country! ROTFLMAO!!!!!!
Ugh...
And, in any event, apparently there is no truth to this story whatsoever...
Whew! Glad to hear that. They shouldn't have waited to come out swinging on this one, though. Some people will not read this little snippet after having heard the allegation from a variety of sources all weekend. Poor PR imho.
Philipe, glad I didn't take your action on this one. I was hoping it would turn out this way.
I should have read the rest of the posts before I weighed in. I really feel bad about what I said. And I so hope it's true that it's false. I just can't tell you.
I consider myself a live-and-let-live type person, but this crosses the line. It's just gross. If it is, in fact, true that he is marrying her, I hope they have a prenup. agreement. It seems obvious that she is after his fortune.
Scott, Great picture and caption!
I was eating my lunch reading the newsonline and I had to do a double-take on this one.
When I finished reading it I sort of threw up a little bit in my mouth......and lost my appetite.
Welcome Morgan Freeman, the newest star to pull a WOODY ALLEN.
bleh!
I'm not sure that it's a valid question, since "acceptable" suggests that the public has some voice in the decision-making process.
Is it moral, ethical, justifiable, or appropriate? Certainly not. But unless some law has been broken, we will have to accept it and live with it. Boycott his films if you wish, but that's about as far as it should go.
Ask Woody Allen... ;)
Ick. Here's another seed. I think I'm going to go take another shower.
Why would you use this as an example if you don't know whether it is true or not? It seems to me that you might be celebrating mission accomplished by smearing this fine man!
It would actually be a great way to avoid estate taxes if he wants to leave her all of his money.
Aside from the fact that the story is "of questionable veracity," I note the unusual voting results given the question as written. Is it ok for NONBLOOD RELATIVES to marry? Well, let's suppose I marry a woman, who dies. Is it acceptable for me to marry her sister? Like, DUHHH! The only thing that is leading people astray here is that they have in mind a marriage to a stepgranddaughter--bringing up images that are somehow incestuous. Even though if you sit and think about it, it is an ex-wife's stepgranddaughter, i.e., the child of her child's spouse, and therefore of no possible relationship by blood to Morgan. Its the age thing most of all.
Thank you, mdnorcuss, for bringing some rationality to the conversation. Even assuming the Morgan Freeman story is true -- which is doubtful, considering the sources and the fact that Morgan's rep has denied that any wedding will occur -- whatever. It's not incest, not even close. It's a wide age gap, it's occurred before. She's 27 years old, very much old enough to make her own decisions about whom to marry.
It's the age thing that bothers people. And unless I'm very much confused, this poll isn't asking about "kissing cousins," or anything like that, or even specifically about whether it's okay for Morgan Freeman to get hitched to his ex-step-granddaughter who is 45 years younger than him. Although, that's clouded considerable because the poll is different than the heading of the article. But about "relatives" whom you are NOT related by blood, such as in-law relations, and step-relations.
If they are not blood relatives and it is mutually agreed upon by the two adult individuals involved, what is the problem and who's business is it except theirs?
My god!!!!!! Was this poll taken in the south???
Is it socially acceptable for non-blood relatives to marry in America?
- * Yes
40%
- No
60%
Or........are you all just plain (Palin) stupid?
Hey, I'm from the South, not deep South, but I had to laugh. I wasn't sure if you meant that 60% thought we have to marry into the family, or that we don't realize we have other options. Either way I got a good laugh out of it.
But remember, if you're not good enough for your own family.........
MoCowgirl
I didn't suggest anything! This was the poll! It said that sixty percent of the dumbasses on here thought it was NOT acceptable to marry NON-blood relatives! So those sixty percent think you should only marry blood related kin!!?? If I fell in love with my brothers, wives, sister, these people think it would not be right for me to marry her. But, if I fell in love with my cousin, or sister, it would be OK??!! Sick Mothers I tell you! And they think we faggots are weird! Go figure.
Gay Vet,
Putting you on ignore. Unacceptable language and attitude, and brings nothing to this discussion for me.
MoCowgirl
Sorry you can't handle the truth. There is absolutley nothing wrong with my language sweets. Guess you didn't realize I was a fagala before you made your first comment. Just remember Girl.....................ya never know.....do ya honey?
I think the age difference is the only thing that bothers me. I am more comfortable with the 5 to 10 year difference. There's 25 years between Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones, and it seems ok to me now.
It's legal and like most marriages it will last as long as each are getting what they want out of it. I hope they are happy.
Who cares what the age difference is? As long as they are both of legal age, it is nobody's GD business.
They are not blood relatives so why not?
What marriage is ex-wife's step-granddaughter from anyway? These guys go through women like hot cakes. If he lives for a few more years he'll be on to another step family member, or other type 20 year old.
I love his acting ability this has no relationship to that. If you start judging these old men on that there will be no movie left to go to.
Is it acceptable for any of us to judge another on a relationship we know nothing about?
Who cares about morality? It just sounds gross!!!!!!!!!
I see this as an old rich man wanting to marry a young woman that isn't by related to him by blood. I see no harm here. If I were in his postion and had a good relationship with her for a decade then I would surely marry her also. Let society frown, but once a bigger story occurs which shouldn't take long no one will care wheather or not Morgan Freeman is married to his step-granddaughter or some one else.
People have waaaaaaaaaaaaay too many hang-ups me thinks. They are consenting adults so who cares.
Who in the hell cares????
Who cares as long as she's hot.
...oh Tappy...
They aren't related, she wants to marry him, he wants to marry her. Why the big deal?
Was there this much concern when Tony Randall married a woman 50 years his junior?
If they are both adults and enter into that bond freely, it is none of our business.
I will say eewww! I have a stepson, I consider him my son. My son's have a stepsister, they consider her their sister. I think that most normal families, whether blended or not, that have traditional family bond would find the eeeww in this story on multiple levels. But legally they are free to do what ever they want.
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